Effeminate Man.

Is it gliding the small patch of hair towards the back and behind the ear that makes me an effeminate man. Having spoken to the air that we breathe, I can assure you I am living the best life that will transcend into future generations of human beings that hold light and fire. 

Is it gliding the small patch of hair towards the back and between the ear that makes a man? I WONDER what it would mean if I were to change my sexuality for a day. I experimented with my sexual identity in the small years that I have lived.